I’m here to take you on a new parenting journey, from desperation to hope and fulfilment, a journey where the needs of both you and your child are met.
I will share the tools that will help you to feel empowered as a parent, so that you can start to enjoy family life again.
When your child’s behaviour is challenging, it’s very easy to get caught up in fighting fires, dealing with the day-to-day battles and losing sight of the bigger picture. You may feel like you are yo-yo parenting, flitting between strict parenting and permissive parenting, desperately hoping that something will work.
With the 3-step coaching model approach, I will help you to become a life coach for your child, helping you to see the best in them, so they can see the best in themselves.
Changing your perspective, will lead to positive changes in your behaviour and theirs. By providing an environment where they can learn, develop and thrive, they will learn to self-regulate and to be their own cheerleader too.
How will we work together, to help you to achieve your goals?
We’ll start with an informal chat, to make sure we’re a good fit. I’ll ask you to fill out a questionnaire and we’ll talk about where you are now and where you want to get to. All families are different and the 10-session course will be tailored to your individual needs.
Each week will have a theme and you will work on different exercises during the session and in the time between sessions.
I’ll help you to understand why things escalate and help you feel empowered to parent in a way that will best serve you and your children.
How quickly will the changes come?
You will probably start to notice changes within days of the first session and continued improvements as the course progresses.
Unlike the behaviourist approach of rewards and consequences, ‘Language of Listening coaching model is focused on the bigger picture. It’s about equipping children with the skills they’ll need for life, like how to negotiate, to handle disappointment and frustration and to meet challenges with confidence.
I’d love to be your guide and cheerleader, giving you the tools to empower you to be the parent you want to be.
£850 for my parenting pathway course. Payment plans available
Your personalised 10 week parenting pathway program package; £850
Payment plans available
How will it benefit my life?
You’ll no longer feel like parenting is an uphill battle.
Imagine being able to handle any situation your child throws at you and swap any negative situation into a positive one. You’ll have tools that really work. Where you actually get to feel good as a parent while holding boundaries and getting WILLING cooperation.
– imagine! Your children wanting to listen to you without you having to resort to bribes or threats.
You’ll build upon your success, gather evidence of your amazingness and that of your child’s. You’ll feel proud of yourself and the successes you’ve made.
How will it benefit my child’s life?
You won’t be squashing your child’s spirit; you’re not making them obedient.
Your child will learn to control their own behaviour, develop self-esteem, confidence in their abilities, and strong mental health. You’ll raise a child who can trust themselves, base their decisions on their greatness and see the possibilities in life.
Will my child be ok with this? Will it hurt them in anyway?
This is all about bringing out your child’s greatness and becoming a life-coach for your child. Your child will LOVE this way. You will get more ‘I love you’s’ and your child will never have felt so loved and understood.
Will there be any interaction with my child?
No, I don’t meet your child. You gain the skills and are empowered to handle whatever your child throws at you. The tools I teach you changes how you SEE situations and your child’s behaviour. Finally, behaviour makes sense, (yours and your child’s) and when behaviour makes sense you get to deal with it in a way that works you.
Imagine being able to handle any situation your child throws at you and swap any negative situation into a positive one.
Will I have to give into my child all the time?
Hell no!My training is the simplest, most doable and effective way to gain willing cooperation whilst still holding firm with your boundaries. Other programs put your child at centre stage, you either have to give in to their demands or change your rules to appease your child.
In fact, you get to hold your boundaries, get what you want for you and your family. You’ll side step the power struggles and work together as a team where you both ‘win’
Will I have to impose discipline techniques I don’t like?
Definitely not! You will not have to do anything you don’t want to do. This way there is NO shame, No blame, No threats, No shouting, No punishments, No rewards AND better-behaved kids.
How much of my personal life do I have to disclose?
As much as you want to, or as little as you prefer. I’m not here to judge your personal life, or your children. I’m here to help you get the family life you want.
Do you work with children who are waiting for or seeking a diagnosis?
YES! The coaching model I teach is perfect for all children. It works with all ages and developmental levels because it meets this child exactly where they are, in the moment, making it perfect for all children and all temperaments.
You may be waiting or even have a diagnosis for your child, and that’s all well and good. However, many parents are still left wondering how to deal with their child’s behaviour. I teach you tools and techniques that work no matter what your family or home life looks like
How long till I see improvements?
Straight away! The coaching model I teach speaks your child’s language and they’ll willingly respond.
This is not some cookie cutter approach. You know your children best and what rules and boundaries you want for your family. I just teach you HOW to get what you want in a way that works for you AND your children.
How much energy will I need?
Less energy than you use now! And so much more fun. When you’re feeling very triggered, or have run out of patience, it’s simple enough that you can use it in the moment and get the results you’re after.
Every time you use our coaching model with your child, you improve your relationship, build trust, gain willing cooperation, and bring out more of your child’s strengths and inner guidance. I can’t begin to tell you how simpler and more enjoyable this way is.
I don’t live with my child’s other parent, does it matter?
No, this is all about you and what YOU want for you and your child.
I have many single parents who use the method I teach. They see dramatic changes in their homes, build a strong connected relationship with their children and support their children to gain confidence in themselves.
My partner doesn’t want to take the course with me, will I still see a difference?
Yes! you’ll see a difference; you want the best for your children. You love your children and want to see them grow up to be the best versions of themselves. You want them to go out into the world believing in themselves and know how to get what they want out of life. And you absolutely DO NOT have to wait for your partner to come on board. ONE person is all it takes to transform any relationship. It does not require your partner to come and see it ‘your way’ before change can happen.
book your call now
Book your call to arrange a FREE initial chat. We’ll talk about what you want from the program, you’ll feel listened to and understood, I’ll share how best I can support you. You’ll have a plan for the next step and if you feel ready, we can get started right away.