Are your child’s tantrums taking over family life?
Restore calm and joy to your family life.
Ok! You know you want to stop shouting and you’re fed up dishing out ultimatums just to get your kids to listen.
Maybe you’re embarrassed that your child hits, kicks or throws things when they don’t get their own way and you’re fed up being the punching bag.
Or maybe that sinking feeling can’t be ignored anymore and you can’t take another day of utter chaos. You just want your kids to go to bed so you can finally have your evenings back.
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“I used to shout at the kids, because I didn’t know what else to do and I felt like I was losing control. Of course this just taught them to fear my outbursts yet learn nothing from them except to shout in return, and at each other. All the noise I taught them to make would trigger my anger.
I had these three awesome small children and I was ruining it. I was afraid they would grow up and not trust me.
…It’s been about ten months since I met Camilla and I realised recently that I almost never shout anymore and haven’t for quite a while. We don’t have a ‘naughty step’ or send our kids to their rooms because we don’t need to, I talk to them instead. Consequences to actions are relevant so I don’t need to make pointless, unrelated threats of punishment. I don’t feel like the kids are deliberately trying to wind me up all the time because I have learned to see situations for what they really are. I am less reactive. I finally feel like I can understand my children and give them what they need to succeed but I have learned to also be very comfortable in setting my boundaries. I can validate and sympathise but I don’t have to agree.”
Master tantrum coach.
I support parents of children under ten years of age whose lives have been taken over by their child’s tantrums and out of control behaviour. Restoring calm to your household and joy to your family life.
I have a teen and a nearly teen and I know just what it’s like to navigate the trials and tribulations of parenting.
So, what typically happens is the parent listens and listens to the child, stays with discussing the emotions, tries to give reasons and logic to change their child’s point of view and get buy in from their child. They end up losing their patience and dishing out a threat as that’s the only thing that works in the
After a few days, the sticker charts are forgotten, your child has lost the use of the iPad again, and you’re left wondering what else to do. It’s not your fault, because all our usual tools we’ve been shown assumes that the child needs motivation to change their ways. This misses the true cause and
When you’re rushed of your feet, your mind is racing and the last thing you need is a stroppy child refusing breakfast. The very thought of dealing with another meltdown is enough to push you to your limits. But take it from me, pausing before you react will change everything. This is what got breakfast back
I had flashes of disaster as I was putting the tent up, imagining her refusing to do anything we had planned on our camping trip or being in a sulk the whole time, I so wanted us to have a fun family trip together. In the past, I would have said something like: “Do you
Connection is key I drew myself back from the brink of dishing out yet another consequence after I realised that my daughter was not driving me crazy on purpose. I made the mistake of thinking that the love I felt for my daughter was the same as meeting her need for connection. When I started
It all starts with setting them up for success. I’ll show you how by using our 3-step coaching model. If you’re new to Language of Listening® coaching, it takes you out of the role of managing your child’s behaviour and puts you on their side as their life coach. Letting them solve their own problems
“Thank you! We can’t stress this enough – thank you!
You have brought calm into our house and I have 4 children under 8 so calm isn’t something I am used to!
We were trying. We’d read all the books but your course helped put the important points into focus and helped us realise out behaviour and response to our children’s normal behaviour was what needed to change.
‘Say what you see’ – such a simple concept has changed our life. Building our children up celebrating their positives instead of reminding them what they have done wrong. Camilla teaches through experience and example and explains how to achieve this even when your children are pushing all buttons and making you feel powerless she has the answer to regain the calm in the chaos without shouting, reward charts or threats!”
