3 Language of Listening® Example Booklets
You just want to know what to say or do…RIGHT NOW!!!
I get it. You’ve read SAY WHAT YOU SEE®, or taken my class, or talked to other moms in my Facebook Community and love Language of Listening® as much as I do…and you want more examples!
I did, too. I love examples, which is why I partnered with my colleague Rose Clark to create this set of booklets for you.
Page by page you’ll find HUNDREDS of examples of EXACTLY what to say to your child in MOMENTS YOU FACE EVERYDAY. SAY WHAT YOU SEE®, STRENGTHs, and CAN DOs. Find your exact situation or read straight through to get the hang of it by osmosis. Examples are the most natural way to learn.
WHAT’S IN-SIDE EACH DOWNLOADABLE BOOKLET
Say What You See® Phrases Printable Booklet
WHAT SHOULD I SAY?
It’s all here! Over 300 SAY WHAT YOU SEE® phrases for 23 everyday situations. You’ll never again be left guessing “what should I say?”
Organized by situation for ease of use. Quickly find what to say when…
You want them to listen/do something
They want something they can’t have
They’re potty training
You see them trying to cooperate
They feel like giving up
You want them to share
They’re feeling impatient
They are fighting with their siblings
Screen time is over
You’re at a family meal
It’s bath time/bedtime
…and 12 more!
What NOT to say
Simple SWYS Starter Phrases
Bonus Phrases for getting yourself heard!
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Language of Listening® Printable STRENGTHs Printable Booklet
WHAT STRENGTH DOES THAT SHOW?
Imagine knowing just what to say to bring out your child’s inner greatness and help them control their own behaviour – so you don’t have to!
Over 100 STRENGTHs at your fingertips and 32 everyday moments where you can find them.
You’ll see how to take some of the statements in our SAY WHAT YOU SEE® Phrases booklet a step further by adding STRENGTHs. Never be left wondering what to say to bring out your child’s inner greatness!
Find 100+ STRENGTHs to quickly connect your child with their…
Super-Star Centering Statements + STRENGTHs
32 SWYS Statements + Possible STRENGTHs
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Language of Listening® CAN DOs Printable Booklet
WHAT’S A GOOD CAN DO FOR THAT?
Keep your emotional connection with your child and STILL be the one in charge!
Over 100 CAN DOs for 34 real-life situations from our SAY WHAT YOU SEE® Phrases booklet.
Learn to recognize NEEDs, hold your boundaries, AND help your child find healthy CAN DOs to meet their needs in ways you LIKE.
Quickly find ideas for CAN DOs the meet the NEED behind behaviors you probably don’t like such as:
Arguing or talking back
Eating messy food with fingers
Hitting or kicking people
Pushing or shoving in play
…and 35 more!
34 SWYS + CAN DO + STRENGTH Examples