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Does your child only listen unless you’ve been driven to shouting like a banshee?
Are you fed up talking till you’re blue in the face?
Do you ever feel like hiding under your duvet with a family size bar of chocolate to escape bedtime tantrums?
Are you ready to go from surviving to thriving?
Isn’t it time you swapped chaos for calm?
Parenting overwhelm is real. There’s lots of confusing and conflicting advice out there. Now, before you start scrolling and skim reading yet another blog post.
STOP!!
I can help you to achieve the family life you have always dreamt of.
I have helped hundreds of parents just like you. I can show you how to positively transform the dynamics of your family life. I can teach you powerful skills that will turn you into a parenting ninja.
Does your child not listen unless you’ve been driven to shouting like a banshee?
Are you fed up talking till you’re blue in the face?
Do you ever feel like hiding under your duvet with a party size bar of chocolate to escape the bedtime tantrums?
Are you ready to go from surviving to thriving? Isn’t it time you swapped chaos for calm?
Parenting overwhelm is real. There’s lots of confusing and conflicting advice out there. Now, before you start scrolling and skim reading yet another blog post.
STOP!!
I can help you to achieve the family life you have always dreamt of.
I have helped hundreds of parents just like you. I can show you how to positively transform the dynamics of your family life. I can teach you powerful skills that will turn you into a parenting ninja.
Language of Listening® is without doubt the most effective, yet simple 3-step coaching model to raising children successfully.
This approach will transform not only the relationship you have with your child but will have a positive effect on all relationships in your life, including how you feel about yourself.
Rachel was fed up. Every. Single. Day. Her 3 boys would fight over who’s turn it was, and the bickering and tantrums would completely hijack family time. One day Rachel decided enough was in fact enough! “Fight over the Xbox and no one gets to play, and you’ll go straight to your room....” And sure enough, a quick fix. A strong consequence and the fighting stopped…for a few days. When the sting of the threat subsided, the arguing started all over again.
Question: “Just wondered if anyone had any advice for me?? I have two children, the eldest is a very strong willed 4-year-old daughter. My hubby and I have just taken the children on holiday with my parents. Every day my daughter has been a drama where she has had tantrums, continuous moaning and really ungrateful behaviour...In short, her behaviour has been truly awful on holiday!!
The other day my daughter came downstairs for breakfast demanding I make her pancakes. and if we had time I might have. That morning, we were running late for school and it just wasn’t going to happen. It was a toast or cereal kind of morning. I bet you can imagine how this situation could all end in a power struggle and tears… I’m sure it happens in thousands of homes every morning. The First step to change is challenging situations with our child is focusing on what IS happening rather than what's NOT happening.
Toddlers are notorious for not sharing. they hold on tight to their toys and easily have a fit if someone wants what they're playing with, even if they haven’t set eyes on it for weeks. It’s how we teach them that makes all the difference.
My daughter's favourite pair of socks are missing and she won't wear another pair. And you might think this is crazy. Why can't she just wear another pair?! And you'd be right... except my daughter and socks are not a good mix. They have to be just the right softness, no seams on the toe and the right hight... she is a sock perfectionist!
Maybe you’re getting the car loaded up ready for a trip to visit family or maybe like me, ready to host a family Christmas. Feeling excited or stressed? This time of year can become difficult to navigate with family members you might not have seen in a while or drive you up the wall. (That reminds me of a time when my daughter was young and I said a family member was driving me up the wall, and she said “what wall mummy?”) Maybe you have a family member who’s the ‘perfect’ parent, even though they don’t have kids. Telling you what you should do when your child invariably has a meltdown. Maybe your parents just don’t ‘get’ how you’re raising your children and are still very old school. You may feel judged by your choices.
