How to Quickly and Easily Put A Stop To Your Toddler Hitting.

We all know how it feels when you’ve been enjoying a peaceful time at the park, and then without warning your toddler bashes his playmate. Or your child has started lashing out at home, either at you or a sibling. These can be pretty trying and stressful times.

Although we all know that toddlers are predisposed to hit, push and kick, it can be frustrating to try and find the answers on how best to deal with these types of unwanted behaviour.

Don’t worry, you’re not alone and the great news is that there are simple steps you can take to put an end to the problem quickly and permanently.

A Stubborn, Defiant Child? A Super Easy Way To Get Them To Listen and Cooperate

Parenting a stubborn, strong-willed child is challenging to say the least. I should know! My daughter would just refuse point blank to do as I asked. She’d scream and shout, and jump up and down and put up a fight. She wanted things her way. Every day was a battle of wills. It was utterly exhausting, and however firm I held my limits nothing would make a blind bit of difference, she would constantly pushed my boundaries. That was until I learnt to see what was really going on. And how to best support my daughter.

“How Do I Stop Shouting At My Child? Help!”

Question: "I need help to stop shouting and screaming at my kids, I feel like a bad mum, I know it's not right and it isn't the way I want to talk to talk to them, but I feel stressed and when they don't listen to me, no matter how hard I try to breathe I find myself yelling. Why am I always shouting? I then feel guilty. I need help as take 3 deep breaths isn't working for me as a tip. Any advice?"

My Child’s Tantrums Are Out Of Control.- What To Do When Your Child Has Angry Meltdowns.

"My daughter is 6. and we get bouts of angry spiteful and violent behaviour at home more than at school. Recently she's been saying we don't love her, and she wants to run away, she thinks we love her brother more, he is only 2. How can I reassure her once she's calmed down? It’s so hard to strengthen our bond which is sadly strained sometimes due to her challenging behaviour." Mrs. H.

The Quickest and Simplest Way To Get Your Child To Listen and Do What You Ask.

I look back to when I was struggling with my daughter's out of control behaviour and wish someone had shown me this way of parenting. It would have saved years of frustration and wasted time. I am now the only UK Language of Listening® coach. No mean feat. That alone is two years of in-depth training and coaching. Having supported hundreds of parents, they tell me it’s the simplest, doable and most effective way to gain willing cooperation and still hold firm with their boundaries. You too can find the same success, happiness and sense of calm that I have found, not to mention WILLING cooperation and kids who WANT to listen to you.

How In The Hell Am I Going To Get My Child To School Without A Battle Or Meltdown?! Read On To Find Out How.

Whatever your experience over that last 18 months, it’s likely all our children will need support to ease back into the school routine. I’m sure most parents are uncontrollably excited about the beginning of the new school year, but if you have a more anxious child, I bet like many parents, you may also have that dreaded thought of “How in the hell am I going to get my kid to school without a battle or meltdown?!”

Turn Everything You Thought You Knew About Parenting On Its Head

If you’re struggling to manage your child’s behaviour, I bet you’ve tried it all--the constant nagging, shouting, threatening to take toys away, and yet nothing seems to work. Deep down you’re worried you’re going to damage your long-term relationship with your child. I know I was. I would lie in bed at night, the guilt of shouting at my kids washing over me, dreading yet another day of dealing with the tantrums and my kids answering back. I felt like I’d hit a brick wall and was about to throw the towel in. I couldn’t take any more.

Why Timeouts And The Naughty Step Doesn’t Work And What To Do Instead

Do you feel like you’re forever losing your cool? You’re stuck in a negative cycle of shouting and dragging your child to the naughty step and yet your child doesn’t change his behaviour? or maybe it 'works' in the moment, but the unwanted behaviour soon returns. Maybe you feel like giving up, as whatever you do, you still can’t get through to him. Maybe you’re fed up feeling like they don’t respect you or take you seriously or you have that nagging feeling that timeouts aren't really working.

What To Do When Your Child Says ‘No!’

How to avoid arguments and power struggles with your child. “My child is forever saying NO! to my every request. Help! How do I get my child to say yes, especially when she argues about everything? It’s wearing me down.” It’s a common question I hear from many parents the world over. You know the drill, it’s bath time. Your child knows it’s bath time. And yet the first thing out of her mouth is a NO! You want the T.V off for dinner, you want to sit at the table and have family time and your child says NO! You’re trying to get out the house on time, shoes on and bags packed, and your child says NO!

The secret to stopping tantrums for good, that most parents don’t know

Having a child who always wants their way and where it seems that every request is met with defiance and a meltdown is really challenging. I know it can feel like your child is doing things intentionally to push your buttons and “wind you up”. When my daughter was younger, before I understood what was really happening, I felt guilty, as if my daughter’s meltdowns were a direct link to my parenting. I felt embarrassed, judged by my family and friends and angry that I had to deal with tantrums on an everyday basis. Truthfully, I felt out of control.

How do I get my kids to listen without yelling, threats or bribes?

Have you ever wondered why your child won't listen unless you shout? I want to show you how to get the kids to listen without shouting, threats or bribes and what to do when your child doesn't listen. One of the biggest challenges in parenting is getting our kids to listen willingly. We can begin to overcome this challenge by understanding things from our child’s point of view. But first, it helps to consider how our usual responses often make the situation worse.

Why won’t my child listen to me unless I shout? The reasons why and what to do about it.

Parents often ask me, “Why won’t my kids listen to me unless I shout? I feel like all I do is yell at my kids, please help me to stop shouting at my kids.”

All too often parents repeat themselves till they're blue in the face, their child still doesn’t listen, so the parent inevitably ends up shouting out of pure frustration.

I know when in the past I found myself in this struggle, my stress levels would go through the roof. Big power struggles would break out and shouting became the ONLY way to get the kids to listen.

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Hi I’m Camilla!

I support parents to restore harmony to their household and fun to their family life.

I have a teen and a nearly teen and I know just what it’s like to navigate the trials and tribulations of parenting.

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